Couples seek therapy for a variety of reasons:
when there is a longstanding unresolved issue, after a traumatic event, or affair, and often as a last resort.
Sometimes one party is ‘over it’ and the other is desperately trying to ‘save’ the relationship. Emotions can be highly charged, and communication can totally break down.
Other times both may want the relationship to continue but can’t see a way forward.
A couple may have separated but want to sort out the differences, and be amicable for the sake of their children.
We believe we bring a suitcase of issues from the past (known and unknown) empty it out in front of us and have a relationship over the top of it.
There are issues that arise from the relationship, and many more that are triggered by it, but are firmly planted in the past.
Subsequent sessions then focus on resolving individual issues privately, and coming back in together and when required.
have better communication
see more than one side of a story
reignite the senses
deepen intimacy and connection
let go of the past
focus on creating a future that you want, together.